For those of you who have yet to experience sex (probably only a few now) I'll actually share some wisdom for a change. And for those who know what I'm talking about. Don't worry you're not the only ones
To love brings you close to hate. Once the love is broken, the backlash is hate. Then its back to a strange feeling of euphoria. Why.... why why? I'd like to think it's because of chemical reactions tricking your brain into thinking you truly love them. It's a terrible feeling to lose a loved one. Especially one you've been very intimate with. That sort of intimacy is the key to this undesirable effect. The crying, tears and the "what ifs" arise. Some have different reactions to the shock. Most just have a cry.
The problem really comes when they don't see the light anymore, what's the point without him/her, what have I got to live for now that he/she has left me. The light of a relationship grows dim, and more dim. Engulfed in darkness, sulking. Some take the easy way out of life. Death. Some take a more gradual curve - depression - then move on with their lives so so. But what's most important is you must remember, "the surroundings isn't getting darker, it's you who refuse to see the light."
Having breakup sex (all the time) doesn't exactly help with the problem, you're gonna dig yourself a terrible grave. *Tear x 100*
Staying in close contact but not sex is a bad thing also, everyone needs to go back and lick their wounds before entering the battlefield we call love. *Tear x 20*
Distance from him/her is a better choice than the two above. Stop doing stuff with them, it will tax you harder than you might think. Hang with friends. *Tear* After a few weeks - months, you should seek closure, it's often the best thing to do. Learn from the mistakes you've made. And part ways.
Later on, maybe after a few months still, if you still have some feelings, I guess it's natural, after all, he/she was your first.
To love brings you close to hate. Once the love is broken, the backlash is hate. Then its back to a strange feeling of euphoria. Why.... why why? I'd like to think it's because of chemical reactions tricking your brain into thinking you truly love them. It's a terrible feeling to lose a loved one. Especially one you've been very intimate with. That sort of intimacy is the key to this undesirable effect. The crying, tears and the "what ifs" arise. Some have different reactions to the shock. Most just have a cry.
The problem really comes when they don't see the light anymore, what's the point without him/her, what have I got to live for now that he/she has left me. The light of a relationship grows dim, and more dim. Engulfed in darkness, sulking. Some take the easy way out of life. Death. Some take a more gradual curve - depression - then move on with their lives so so. But what's most important is you must remember, "the surroundings isn't getting darker, it's you who refuse to see the light."
Having breakup sex (all the time) doesn't exactly help with the problem, you're gonna dig yourself a terrible grave. *Tear x 100*
Staying in close contact but not sex is a bad thing also, everyone needs to go back and lick their wounds before entering the battlefield we call love. *Tear x 20*
Distance from him/her is a better choice than the two above. Stop doing stuff with them, it will tax you harder than you might think. Hang with friends. *Tear* After a few weeks - months, you should seek closure, it's often the best thing to do. Learn from the mistakes you've made. And part ways.
Later on, maybe after a few months still, if you still have some feelings, I guess it's natural, after all, he/she was your first.
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